Loneliness : the only thing I am afraid of....

Loneliness does not come from having no people around you, but from being unable to communicate the things that seem important to you. It is said that the most terrible poverty is loneliness and the feeling of being unloved. It is only because of loneliness that people get into the arms of someone they know, that is wrong for them or does not belong to.

Rejection in love brings loneliness, Rejection though - it could make the loss of someone you weren't even that crazy about feel gut wrenching and world ending.

We Accept the Love we think we deserve

Everyone says Love hurts, but that is not true, Loneliness hurts, Rejection hurts, Losing someone (whom you love) hurts, Envy hurts, Everyone gets this things confused with love, but in reality love is the only thing in this world that covers up all pain and makes someone feel wonderful again.

We accept the Love we think we deserve is the quote from a book "The perks of being a Wallflower".

Below is the Conversation between Charlie and his sister, sam.

Sam:Why do I and everyone I love pick people who treat us like we're nothing?

Charlie:We accept the love we think we deserve.

 

It simply means we are responsible for the love we select. If we think low about ourselves (suffer from low self esteem), we will be happy with even mediocre kind of love too. Who won't treat us properly, we will not protest even if he abuses us, mentally and physically, and simply take down everything silently.

 

But if we have high self esteem we will get better love. As simple as that.